William B. Franklin has penned the following “definition” of a dad:
“If he's wealthy and prominent and you stand in awe of him, call him ‘father.’ If he Sits in his shirt sleeves and suspenders at a ball game and picnic, call him ‘Pop.’ If he wheels the baby carriage and carries bundles meekly, call him ‘Papa’ (with the accent on the first syllable). If he belongs to a literary circle and writes cultured papers, call him ‘Papa’ (with the accent on the last syllable).
“If however, he makes a pal of you when you’re good, and is too wise to let you pull the wool over his loving eyes when you are not; if, moreover, you’re quite sure no other fellow you know has quite so fine a father, you may call him ‘Dad.
There is little doubt or dispute that a father has a profound impact on his children. That impact may be for good or for evil. The influence, teaching and modeling of a father has started many a youngster down the path of life destined for greatness or destined for destruction. It is true that children grow up and assume responsibility for their own lives, their own actions and their own destinies. But it is equally true that dads make a tremendous difference in the lives of their children.
As you anticipate Father’s Day, consider your father. Think of his positive traits and how he influenced you. Ponder his teaching and life and how it affected you. Be thankful for the ways that your dad helped you on the path of life. Take responsibility for your actions regardless of what your dad taught you.
If you are a father, consider your impact on the life of your children. There is no other person that God has ordained to guide and direct the home but you (Ephesians 6:4). Commit yourself to the awesome responsibility of stewardship for the lives of your children. Pray. Pray for your family. Pray for yourself. After all, God knows a little bit about being a Father.
Steve Lusk