Many are changing their "understanding" of the role of women
in the church. Some suggest that the changing of culture and the
changing attitudes of many relative to the general role of women in society
should rightfully alter our thinking about the roles available to women
in the work and worship of the church. Women in some congregations, which
wear the name "Church of Christ", are being given an expanded role in the
worship and work of the church.
These expanded roles of women have been met with eagerness and
approval by some while others have strongly rejected and opposed
them. The question is: Scripturally what should our attitude be toward
the role of women in the church?
One important passage which must be considered on this topic
in 1 Tim.2:8-14. Note should first be given to the reason stated
by the inspired Paul in these verses for the regulations which should govern
the activities of men and women in the church. The reason transcends culture.[emph.mine,jft]
The regulations which are given here in this passage are based upon the
order of creation and the deception of the first women (Eve) when she sinned
in the garden of Eden (verses 13-14). Neither of these things has to do
with culture, changing times or changing attitudes. Therefore, regardless
of change, the principles set forth by the inspired apostle here remain
the same for those who respect the authority of God's Word.
Secondly, a consideration should be given to the regulations found here. In verse 8, Paul refers to men and prayer. He states that men are to "pray in every place". This governs prayer whatever the place. All Christians are to pray (1 Thes.5:17) so we should not jump to the conclusion that women are here prohibited from praying everywhere. Rather what is being taught is that whatever the circumstances where ever it takes place when both men and women are present the men are to "lead" the prayers. This is not restricted to the worship assembly of the church; but, as Paul states, it is applicable to "every place".
Next, Paul instructs women specifically in verse 12, "But I permit not a woman to teach, nor to have dominion over a man." Again the regulations must be understood in the light of other Scripture.
Paul is not forbidding women to teach for in other places Paul commanded women to teach (e.g. Titus 2:3-5). What Paul states here has to do with women not being allowed to teach men in the church. Immediately, it should be acknowledged that women do not have the authority from God to preach in an assembly of both men and women nor to teach a Bible class in which both sexes are students. But there is also significance in what Paul then states, "nor to have dominion over a man". The word "nor" is used to further explain the significance of the role of women being described. The apostle is forbidding any teaching or any similar activity in which a woman might exercise authority over the man. Placing a woman in charge of such things as Vacation Bible School (where men are involved as teachers and in other capacities), the general educational program of the church, or the visitation program (again where men are involved) would therefore be sinful. It should also be recognized that a woman can also take charge of (be in authority) circumstances where she is not necessarily in a position of authority and thereby sin. I have known women to take over classes where a man was the "teacher" by her attitude and her determination to control the discussion and monopolize the conversation. I have also known of women who have "taken over" discussion meetings where a man was supposed to be in charge by using similar tactics. Paul through inspiration determined that such behavior was and remains sinful - it is a violation of God's law (1 John 3:4). Because men are not shouldering well their responsibilities before God does not justify a woman taking over. Both should recognize their God-given roles and follow what God authorizes.
It is true that God has regulated the roles of both men and women
in the church. Those regulations are not altered by changing times, attitudes
or culture. These regulations of God will remain the same until the end
of time. We are going to be held accountable before God for abiding by
these regulations (1 John 12:48; 8:31-32). We should seek to please Him
in all that we do and say (Gal. 1:10)